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My family doesn't eat, we vacuum our meals. How would you suggest we slow down?


There is a classic meditation exercise that involves eating a single raisin. The objective is to experience the raisin fully, first enjoying its texture with your tongue, then gradually chewing it and realizing the full bouquet and complexities of its flavor. Naturally, the goal isn't to eat an entire meal like that, but the exercise teaches you to slow down and really appreciate food and all the sensory properties it offers. Try this exercise with your family and encourage them to take what they learn to the table with them. Also, take a moment prior to digging in to give thanks for the meal and the company at the table. This mindful approach can be a more positive way to slow down your family, rather than enforcing a militaristic "chew each bite 40 times" rule.

I hate to eat. It has become a chore. I feel it is this incredible waste of time. Is this weird or what?

Food and nervous tension are definitely linked in many ways. For one, if you don't eat regular meals, your blood sugar drops and you get that edgy, impatient feeling that makes you snap at people. My husband and I don't bicker much, but when we do it is usually because we are both hungry. Trust me, I can get mean when I am hungry! We always make up after a good meal, though.

Also, caffeine can increase your stress level by making you feel jittery and hyper. Ironically, people who have stressful lives are usually the first ones to skip meals and overdo caffeine! So, to maintain your cool and your relationships make sure you don't go more than 4-5 hours without eating, and take it easy on caffeinated teas, sodas and coffees. It could also help to eat a carbohydrate-rich diet. Carbs set off a brain chemical called serotonin, which has a calming effect on the body.

Lately I've been hearing that reducing sugar from the diet is more important than lowering fat intake. Is sugar really bad for me?

A teaspoon of sugar in your tea and a piece of chocolate here and there isn't going to kill you, but a high sugar diet can definitely be a big problem. Sugar has lots of calories, but no nutrients whatsoever. So eating lots of it can leave you overweight and malnourished at the same time! I've had clients who somehow managed to survive on Twizzlers and soft drinks. But let me tell you, they felt a lot better once they started eating real food again, foods that actually contain vitamins and minerals. What a concept!

I recommend limiting your sugar intake to 10 teaspoons a day (about 30 grams), which, by the way, is the amount of sugar in one 12-ounce can of soda! Keep in mind that I am talking about limiting added sugars, not the sugars inherently found in nutritious foods like fruit, milk and plain yogurt.

How can I reduce my salt intake and still enjoy what I eat?

Try spicing up your food using fresh flavorings, including herbs, peppers, garlic, onions and lemon juice. Mrs. Dash makes some nice sodium-free herb-and-spice mixtures that can really enhance your meal. Also, you can try a salt substitute.

Remember, not all foods high in sodium taste salty. One cup of tomato juice has about a third of the salt Try spicing up your food using fresh flavorings, including herbs, peppers, garlic, onions and lemon juice. Mrs. Dash makes some nice sodium-free herb-and-spice mixtures that can really enhance your meal. Also, you can try a salt substitute. Remember, not all foods high in sodium taste salty. One cup of tomato juice has about a third of the salt you should have each day. And many convenience foods are loaded with salt. One serving of instant noodle soup can set you back almost 1200 milligrams. That's half your daily allotment. So read labels carefully and try to keep your sodium intake to less than 2400 milligrams a day. you should have each day. And many convenience foods are loaded with salt. One serving of instant noodle soup can set you back almost 1200 milligrams. That's half your daily allotment. So read labels carefully and try to keep your sodium intake to less than 2400 milligrams a day.

 



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