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I hate to eat. It has become a chore. I feel it is this incredible waste of time. Is this weird or what?


I am a major food lover. It is one of the reasons I became a nutritionist in the first place. But I’ve also gone through periods of extreme stress or emotional upset when I totally lost interest in food. For me, those times meant I was too anxious or sad to enjoy life fully or nourish myself properly. Take steps to find out the root of your problem. It could be a sign of depression, stress, or even a medical issue. It is also possible that you are simply too busy to stop and smell the proverbial roses.

Think back, maybe to your childhood when you truly enjoyed food. What was your favorite food? What was its aroma? What was its texture? Who were you with when you were enjoying it the most? Once you tap into that sensory memory, try to bring that experience to your next meal. Taking the time to enjoy a good meal is far from a waste of time. It is one of life’s true pleasures.

Loss of appetite also can be a sign of depression. So, if your appetite doesn’t return, you should consult with your physician and get to the root of the problem.

What is your opinion of the high-protein low-carb diet? Is it the most effective way to lose weight and keep it off?

There are many versions of the high-protein low-carb plan, some more extreme than others. Some diets eliminate all breads, rice and other grains completely, and put stringent limits on fruits and dairy products. Those plans are potentially dangerous and often deficient in many B vitamins, calcium and fiber. More moderate plans merely discourage overeating refined grains and sugars. I have seen many people have success with that approach because it gets them away from a diet heavy in bagels, pasta, bread and sugary foods. The bottom line is that whole grains, including oatmeal, brown rice, wholewheat bread and wholegrain cereals provide many valuable nutrients. Don’t go on any diet that bans these foods. But laying off sugary foods and products made with white flour could help you lose weight and keep it off.

My boyfriend can’t stand low- fat anything and while he supports my dieting, he can’t stand the cuisine that comes with it. Suggestions?

Just because you choose to reduce fat in your diet doesn’t mean your boyfriend has to eat the same way . You can prepare dishes that have gravies, sauces or cheese, but leave these high-fat extras off your portions. If you make a roast chicken, take some breast meat for yourself but remove the skin. Your boyfriend can eat the dark meat, skin or whatever parts he likes If the main dish is high in fat, just take a small portion for yourself and make veggies and salad the main part of your meal. This way the overall meal will be leaner.

Also, your boyfriend may only think he doesn’t like low-fat cuisine because many people wrongly equate it with rabbit food. Find a fabulous, flavorful, low-fat recipe and serve it to him without mentioning that it’s healthier. He just might like it.

 



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