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Topic: Love but not in return
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Liz |
posted 07-24-2000 03:37 PM ET (US)
Okay, I went to school with a person I never in my life imagined myself with, but it happened and then suddenly we were together. Right before he was going to move away I said yes. . I guess the reason that I didn't agree to "us" earlier was because I didn't want to get attached to him. I knew that I would never feel the same way about him that he felt about me. . . He fell in love with me, he would do anything in his reach to make me happy, he would take a bullet for me if he had to. Everyday, he calls long distance, just to hear my voice. . . we broke up because I didnt want to have a long distance relationship, they don't work. . . Well now he calls me everyday, taking me to the point where I just leave messages that I'm not home. . . . what do I do? Why can't I love him?
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hazlefox
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posted 07-24-2000 10:51 PM ET (US)
tell him that you dont love him like he loves you....cuz if you dont he just gonna keep on loving you more, and the more yuo wait, the worse its gonna get over time when you do decide to tell him...the sooner, the better..bAbE |
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Liz
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posted 07-26-2000 01:23 PM ET (US)
thanx for the advice , but its easier said than done. . . I don't find it easy to share my feelings especially when I know that it might even end our friendhip. . soooooo confused. . . |
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Sexxy
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posted 07-29-2000 04:48 PM ET (US)
Ok, We all know how hard it is to tell someone that we could never feel for them the way they may feel for us. It will hurt both of you more if you'r both eing ignorant to the fact of reality. He must realize that you and him can never work at such a great distance and you must let him know, wether you say it harshly or nicely, that you love for him can never amount to the way he feels for you. Either way you say it, it's going to hurt him, but that's what makes the world we live in a harsh reality.. Good Luck GiRLy...*mwaz -SeXXy |