If you are single and seeking your life partner, or if you
are a helping professional interested in providing relationship
coaching to singles, the LifePartnerQuest
program is for you!
Available in-person or over the telephone, individually or as
a workshop or class.
In 8 weeks you will learn who you really are, what you really
want, and how you can find your life partner and get what you
want in your life and relationships. |
To be successful in meeting the love of your life, you most likely
will need to meet a lot of prospective partners. This can be a daunting
challenge for many singles, who then settle for less than what they
really want, because of the time and effort involved, their desire
to have a partner now, shyness and/or low self esteem, and their
fear that what they really want is not out there. But, when you
settle for less, you get less. And if you settle for a relationship
that is less that what you really want, the relationship is doomed
from the start. Here are four effective skills (and meaningful dating
requires skills) for finding your life partner.
- Scouting: the process of
finding people to meet. A successful single scouts in high quality,
closely aligned attraction
venues and has an effective network/support system scouting
for them as well.
- Sorting: the process of
quickly determining if someone you meet has future potential.
A successful single is able to initiate contact with people and
in conversation get enough information within five minutes to
know whether they want to get to know them better or move on.
Think of it as "working the room" at a party.
- Screening: the process
of getting enough information to determine if a prospective partner
meets your requirements
or not. Since Requirements are relationship breakers, all of them
must be met. Getting this information can occur over the telephone,
by e-mail, over coffee, or taking a walk. If you are looking for
your life partner, you can’t
afford to explore dead ends, it is important to get this information
and the prospective partner pass your screening before
you date them and get involved.
- Testing: the process of
verifying the information you collected during screening, gaining
knowledge and experience that your requirements are met
and the relationship works for you before you become exclusive
and consider being a pre-committed
couple. This process can take from two weeks to six months or
more.
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